Hi all........my fiance and I are in our late 50's, and although we've known each other as acquaintances for 40 years, we've only been in a relationship for 8 months and have planned our wedding for October. When we first got engaged and set a date, we were so excited to have finally found our soul mate that we were both guilty of asking several people to the reception that, with hindsight, we shouldn't have done. In particular, two of the women guests have been making comments such as "bit quick isn't it" and "when's the baby due then". We really don't want them and their negativity at our special day but feel that now we've invited them verbally we have no choice but to follow it up with a formal invitation. We could both kick ourselves!! What do you think? Can we just ignore the fact that we asked them and fail to send them an invitation, or should we just bite the bullet, invite them, and hope that they'll act a little more graciously on the day?